I spoke to strangers on the internet and gathered marriage advice from them, enjoy!
101 ON MARRIAGE:
Know yours and your partners love languages - 5 Love Languages
Even though you're married doesn't mean you can't still be friends. Have fun within your marriage.
Say "thank you" and mean it, even if it is an "of course" moment, showing appreciation always goes a long way.
The first year is the hardest, so communicate.
Divorce is expensive, so don't get married unless you want forever.
Talk finances, parenting views and how many children you'd like.
Never assume that your partner can read your mind, healthy communication is huge.
You will both change.
Pick your battles.
Don't be co-dependent on each other.
You can agree to disagree.
You have to compromise. It's not 50/50 it is fully 100/100.
Be patient and treat each other with respect.
Tomorrow isn't promised, so always say "I love you".
It's OK to go to bed angry.
Talk about everything.
Never stop dating each other.
That sometimes you will absolutely hate your spouse, but still want to cuddle them.
Live together before marriage.
Don't stay for the sake of your kid(s).
Give your partner a compliment at least once a day.
Leave criticism out the door.
Do something special for your partner every day, even if it is a little note.
Never go to bed mad each other and don't ever keep score.
Don't give up.
Don't fight or argue when angry, cool down first.
Be open to lifestyle change.
Don't apologize until you really mean it.
Every day is a choice.
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